Arranged Marriages
Arranged marriages refer to marriages in which the parents of the couple are the ones choosing the partner. Sometimes, marriages are arranged on the basis of recommendations from friends and family.
What are the benefits of arranged marriages and how can they
be improved? One, it is an easy way for people to match if they are unable
to find compatible partners. Parents may consider the wishes of their
children before making or accepting a proposal. Other times, the parents make
the decision without any input.
The current trend is informal arrangements. Parents will generally compile a dossier with information about their child. This includes everything from education to family history to hobbies and interests. A photograph is often included. The material is sent to the marriage bureaus or as a response to an advertisement for a match for children grooms.
Most cases allow for a meeting between young people and the
possibility of courting. Although arranged marriages are common in Asia,
there are some cultures that prefer this route of partnership.
The trend for young people to find their spouse online is a
recent one in arranged marriage. You send a profile to a matrimonial site
and wait for a match. They then contact each other by phone or email to
get to know each other.
Arranged marriages can be very stable. These marriages
are based upon financial, religious, and educational compatibility. The
parents are generally happy with their match and approve of it.
Other reasons might not work as well for
marriages. Many parents arrange marriages to expand and grow their family
business. This marriage is not compatible, but based on a
need. People often agree to this because they have failed to find love and
have failed to do so.
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