Arranged Weddings - Is it Still Relevant in the Modern World?

Do you want to be married to someone who you have not met, or even loved? Do you believe in arranged marital relationships? What are some of the contributing factors to arranged marriages for children by their parents? There are mixed responses to these questions. Some individuals consented to an arrangement because it was the best method to find the right spouse, while some others declined because they didn't love that person.

Arranged marriage exists in some countries such as India and China. It is a marriage between parents that is not subject to the courtship process. It is practiced most often by wealthy and influential families.

To maintain their position in society.

To prohibit their children from marrying outside of their community and social standing.

To ensure the success their children.

This type marriage arrangement dates back at least 1500 years ago in Victorian Europe. It was practiced in ancient Egypt to preserve the royal bloodline. Romans used the practice to build strategic alliances as well as to enhance military strength within their family.

The idea of it has changed over the years as parents have become more concerned about the lives of their children and consent to the arrangement. They believed that marriages could only be successful when their children find the right life partners. However some parents still retain control over their children's lives, and they can choose their partners.

While some cultures still insist on this type marriage, others create a shortlist of possible spouses for their children. If negotiations fail to take place, both the parties are expelled.

Pros:

It is a way to keep the marriage together, as the parties share the same culture values and opinions.

The family circle holds wealth, property, and assets of both the families. Both families have the same family secretes, problems and concerns.

There is no problem with incompatibility because parents choose their child's spouse based on their education, financial, or religious background brides.

A marriage based on romantic affection has a lower divorce rate than one based on cultural or values compatibility.

Parents support both parents. Both husband and wife have the right to financial, emotional, as well as physical support from their parents in times of trial and tribulation. If the parents are having trouble finding suitable babysitters, then it is common for grandparents to step in and care for their grandchildren.